כדי לשמור על איכות הסביבה- נא למחזר שקיות, סוללות, ניירות, בקבוקים... אפשר להעביר ישירות לספטיניה סולר, בתאום מראש
כל המידע הנכתב באתר זה וכל מה שאתם מקבלים בפגישות הייעוץ, הלימודים, הקורסים, המענה לשאלות בכתב או באימייל נכתב ונערך ע"י ספטיניה סולר ומוגנים בזכויות היוצרים, לפיכך, אין להעתיק או לפרסם ללא אישורה
I arranged here few answers to common questions from people and students about different issues
Because the information is new for you, you may notunderstand the answers,therefore I'll be willingly teaching and giving you moreclarifications during the seminarsand consultation sessions I'm respecting the privacy of people, therefore, the names are notpublished
Question: What is love
Answer: The relationship is a very important issue for you- right?
Why you are attracted to a certain type of mates, are still keep searching for you mate?
One of my quotes is: ♦ Falling in love is an illusion that goes away with the time- it only gets to the physical-external level and taking energy from others, also getting an external support
What the word "love" mean to you
According to the education and the society that with have grown the meaning of "love" may have variety of possibilities:
The following examples represent us that the meaning of the love in the society is at a lower level of consciousness and based only on the ego of the human-self will- because it external, depended, pleasing others, caring that someone else fills the emptiness within, the fear being unaccepted of welcomed, over-caring to someone else etc
The love at a higher level of consciousness begins with the self-acknowledgment who we are, where are our limits, the balance between giving and receiving, acting from co-operation, mutual respect, trust, openness, patience and being assertive, releasing energies that were connected to other people- like: hate, guilt, self-pity, jealousy, anger, tension, judgment, criticism etc
The love is first for ourselves, taking responsibility- for our time, our appearance, self acceptance as it is, higher self-esteem, seeing all the perspectives from different people that involve our lives and act accordingly, giving freedom to other people, not being deepened on others, and acting from the discretion of personal intuition etc
For example: a parent that wants very much to assist the child to learn how to play and construct a Lego game. The parent who loves the child from a lower consciousness has much care and starts to build the game. "Judy, I can see the you can't do it, you can't construct the game, as always, you are so wrong, I'll build it for you"
But parents that love themselves and are balanced within are interested in the independence growth of the child, those parents will give love from a higher level of consciousness, by that, that they allow the child to deal and built the game alone. "Judy, I'm aware that it's a bit difficult to build the game, but you can do it yourself, you can do it".
You are always looking for your mate; therefore you must understand that the important relationship is first of foremost with yourselves. No woman or man will cause you peacefulness, higher self-esteem and self-respect, pass the time etc. First for a balanced relationship and not depended, you are developing within you everything what a woman or a man can compete. The first process is to learn how not taking energy from someone else through manipulation, seduction and suction.
Here are a few examples for lower consciousness love based on the lower ego of the human-self will:
Parents to their child: "We are your parents, we care for you that you'll have a safe future- yes, we are going to register you to learn to be a lawyer- it's a career with a future, success and status, you won't need to be like us- a father that was a laborer and a mother that was a housewife"
Not to lay down the parents: "Respect your father and mother, it is said that is holy- that's how is written in the bible- my parents match me Shula, they have done everything that I'll be married and have a family- although I don't like her, I must marry her".
Desire to be with someone else: "I really want to be with Shimi, he sounded very nice on the phone, I met him through the acquaintance web site and I must have a date tonight, to see a movie, afterward to go to a bar or maybe go dancing at a club and have fun together".
"Wow, what a picture, what a photo with the celebrity actress- I'm a fan of hers for many years- I must buy this picture- she's gorgeous".
Disappointment and blaming yourself- "How a shame that I have wasted my life for nothing, I've worked hard from morning until evening, I didn't traveled around the world, not I'm retired, a widower, I don't have the power that I had, I'm not young anymore, the money that I get from the social security is not enough".
"Now I'm 52 years old, everyone left me, I'm lonely and no one understands me, the children don't want me anymore, how they can do to me such a thing- I gave them my life, I was a house five, I was taking care of them and now they don't even phone to me. Life is really ugly- I sit all the time at home watching TV, I don't have a drive license, my husband comes home late and is tired, I envy my neighbor- she has success, she has a career, she is all the time going to other countries".
The will to be like someone else: "Look, how nice, I bought the perfume that was at the add and also I bought the shirt with his signature- the football player no.1 in the world, Kobby- I appreciate him- what a game was on Saturday"
"I'm looking very awful and ugly, look at the model- everything fits her perfectly- I want to be look like her- I'm dressing like her to look like her"
To please mates at disharmony relationship: "Tomorrow I'm finally, going to have a breast surgery to get them bigger, I saved a lot of money for a few months to do it for my boyfriend- I want so much that he will be with me, that he will not leave me and be happy with me".
Acceptance to certain society of people: "I'm going to make a tattoo tomorrow on my right arm, that's what I have to do to be with that group of people- I'll do everything to be with them- they are so supportive, so funny and I'm having fun to be with them, I enjoy being with them".
"Those neighbors invited us to their son's wedding, of course will go and will give them a higher sum of money, I respect them because each year they have a new car, they fly to Paris for holidays, did you see what jewelry her husband bought her and what a new kitchen they did?"
At the process of self-development, when you are revealing your authentic-higher-self within you, you are gradually release the dependency on others for receiving attention, appreciation, understanding, admiration, acceptance, strength, validation, encouragement, caress or hugs. You are beginning to receive everything through your authentic-higher-self, your divine-self within you. Each time that you teal with and get over something that was your low-spot for you- you are encouraging yourselves and receive the confidence that it is possible and continue
You deal with and f over: "how I'm not having control over others and don't allow others to have control over me", "How I'm not depending on others and feed myself by that- if it's that I'm a victim, lack of self-confidence and low self-esteem' don't know the my limits and how to express myself without blaming others or critic them".
You are learning gradually to release anger, guilt, feeling abuse and a victim, fears, traumas and memories… you are learning how to rebalance yourselves without being depended on someone else, being in wholeness within at your masculine aspect and the feminine aspect within you
As your consciousness level is developed and is much higher, that's how you start tosee and understand things from different perspective. It means, the desire fora relationship is changing. What you thought your "appropriate" mate isnot appropriate for you anymore at your progress at this time. You are learning to forgive and release all what you had with previous relationships, so youcan have a balanced appropriate relationship for you at this time ofyourself-development
Which qualities do you choosein your relationship: mutual respect, trust, loyalty, honesty, openness, patience, co-operation
Why are you so interested to be with someone now? Whyare you so longing for this
Also, you have to knowthat there is the human-self will that the person will be (nice, rich, status, certain look etc) and there is the authentic-higher-self will that is much more important and the things are verydifferent. That's why you have to integrate between those two wills and allowthem to being you the best appropriate relationship for you at the appropriatetime When you want something very desperately and hang onto it, this thing is getting away from you. To allow the things to come to you, you must release the grasp, expectations and control
When you find your appropriate mate, you have to developthe relationship between you mutually, and with the progress that is appropriatefor both of you
When you get to the level ofconsciousness beyond duality, you also be integrated withyour own authentic-higher-self within you, and the relationship will be totally at another level
Question: How can are we dealing practically with people and situations of anger, tenssion, fear etc
Answer: What are you doing at your daily routinelife when you are dealing with people and situations that make you be anger, irritated, stressed, frightened…
There are four ways of dealing with them
1) Forgetting all what have been learning at the theoretical information, running away from the situation and not facing it
2) Being defending and bring back in aggressiveness, fighting, violence, anger, revenge, and show who is the strongest
3) Changing the others in a way to correct and improve the other's behavior, heal them from their traumas that they have gone through, help them to change
4) Starting to take responsibility on yourselves, being aware to what is happening and not operating anymore from the automat habits, you star to breath deep and aware breathings to integrate with your own Self-Partner, "to stop" for a few seconds and asking yourselves honestly: "what I feel inside me- which fear or emotion this situation or person raise up from inside me?" you are staying with the feeling inside you and give a true intend to release it gently from you
Of course, the recommended way in the consciousness development is the forth way, because the consciousness development is personal and is by taking responsibility on yourselves without running away, change others or correct them. The situations and people are there to bring you a "gift", because you are releasing from yourselves things that are no longer appropriate for your own personal consciousness. Of course, they don't need to know what you are doing, because the "work" that you are doing is internal and on a "quite" level and it's a about you not them.
You have to understand that each time that you have a situation, challenge or person in front of you, it only represents a fear or a certain emotion that raises upon the surface that you will acknowledge it an release it from within you
A fear to be alone, fear of drowning, fear of abandonment, fear of failure, fear of success, fear of being poor and lack, fear of integrating with your Self-Partner, fear of confrontation, fear of being a victim, fear being control over others, being controlled by others, fear expressing your own internal truth, fear of being the true authentic self, fear of change, fear of dark places, fear of being independence, fear of enlightenment, being anger, betrayal, hate, jealousy, seduction, uncertainty, doubts, dependence etc…
The fears are in your own aspects that are within you. They have gone through many different experiences along many lifetimes therefore they remained at lower consciousness. The fears are imprinted at the cellular memory of consciousness. So, the imprint is released only when you give a true intend and allow it to be released from within you
This process is gradual, therefore it requires from you to be patient with the challenges that come to you at the daily life
Question: What is the mass consciousness
Answer: In brief, the mass consciousness is compounded by all the humans believes systems, thoughts and emotions at a certain place such as: town, country, work place, family, house etc, in metaphor way it's like a could which contains in it all the general believe systems, thoughts and emotions at the certain area or place. There is a general mass consciousness for all humanity on this dimension and it's very easy to suck into that consciousness. When you are going into it, you actually losing yourselves
Question: Can you explain about the changes in relationships and partnerships between people
Answer: My answer will be in general and not personal. This is the most important issues that are changing now, and one of the interests that people have. The society taught you that there is a ceremony and there are some rules that you must obey them. Relationships and marriage, all of this… today, this is one of the most of the issues that make a tremendous of guilt within the people. In a way, you make look at marriage and one of the original ceremonies of the duality. You are taking a man and a woman- duality- and put them together, connecting the two of them, integrating them to be together and make them stay together. Some of the religious even don't allow you to separate otherwise the "God" will get angry if you do so! You don't have to stay with someone that you are not love anymore. Because love is an energy- a chemistry with a beginning and an end- energy that is come to an end The important thing that you can do with relationships right now is to release, to be free. But, let them go, because it doesn't make you good, and it doesn't make them good. You are unhappy In the New energy, there're will be fewer relationships for a while. The first relationship will be with you. I have mentioned before that you will have to be sometimes lonely. You are connecting to your higher-self. It's difficult to do in some cases when there is a partner that is not so understandable with your process. In the New energy, relationship will be with you for a while When new relationships are developing with other people, there will not be so many rules. They will be much more open. They will be based on trust and honesty much more than the rules. They will be based on partnership and friendship much more than the rules and limitations. You won't see any more your relationships as they were and used to see them in the duality. The relationship will be first with yourself and will be more open to each and one of you without seeing them as sexual objects or a completion to you; you will be connected to everyone at a different level. Relationships will not be based on duality, the need a physical completion, depended and manipulative. You will be completed and integrated in your own; therefore, you will not have the need to look it in someone else. You will understand your partners and they will understand you. Do you need rules? Why you need to have contracts or depended on someone else, when you are acting at this higher level of compassion and honesty? The relationship between female and male were created and based on the old duality. It was one of the original expressions of the duality
Question:Ifeel so disconnected and not integrated. I feelcompletelyconfused, even lost. I want so much to feel connected again, buthow
Answer:You are changing from and old energy to the new and youhave this natural feeling of disconnection. A feeling of disillusionmentandwithout willingness. There is a change in your wholesystem and it's difficultto go through it. During thistime, Just know that you are not alone- there allthe timehelp and assistance. Don't worry that you are doing the right or wrongthing, that causes you to be frozen, you get paralyzed by theworrying if youdid something wrong during this changingprocess. You're afraid to take anaction and do something, you are afraid to express yourself. Don't worry. Withallthe energetic dynamics that is going within your and around you, you can'tmake mistakes. You are just experiencing new things. Starttrusting in yourselfand understand that it's just of aprocess that you are goingthrough
Question:A lot of peoplethat are at theself developing process are having hard painsandotherdifficulties in their body. What can Ido
Answer: Thosepains in yourbody are the symptoms of the transformationfrom the duality to the new energy. Theyaresymptoms of changes that occurring at the deepestlevelsof your being, even deeper then the DNA. Those changes and pains willcontinue to be. You don'tneed to resist them. Those painsare the symptoms of thetransition to the new energy andall the changes that occur deep withinyou. Irecommend you to have a few GST® rebalancing-treatmentsessions, and I canfacilitate you to release the blockages and go through theprocess much easier
Question: Please, explain how do I have to dealwith the fear
Answer: You are usedto fight withfearwhen it comes. Your natural response is to put it asaresisting energy. The fears, anxiety, worries and doubtswill come. Andall areappropriate andnatural energies. Instead to fightthe fear- and that's thewayit's get more power- start tobefriendly with it and ask it what it wants totell you, which energy has to released from within you. As I toldyou the storywith the four people and the snake that is ontheir way, howeach one of themfacedthe fear and the situation. You haveto deal with thosesituations and notdeny them. Thenatural response is to worry and get frightened and feel that youneed to make an external move. You feel that you need to dosomethingthat itwill disappear. Andthis is not the way you have todo, just sit with it, walkto this fear, ask it why it isinyour life. Ask it if it what's to be releasednow. Maybeit is waiting to get out of your life. Understandthis is not thereality, if you are not choosing itanymore
Question: At this seminar you wrote, that some of my low spots: because you came to the duality dimension with 2/2within you are feminine energy and 1/3 are masculine energies and you arefeeling a lack of yang
On the fifth lesson of the seminar Self awareness through the consciousness beyond the mind we have learned that: "as you already understand on the duality consciousness everything physical tangible, each cell, each particle is compound from feminine and masculine energy in a relation of 2/3 and 1/3 and the four elements". Therefore, if I understand it correctly, everybody is compounded at the same relation and not only me, has it meant that all the men that looks very manly, they have the same relation as me, I'd like to clarify this
Answer: Because the duality consciousness has a polarity, opposing and dividing energy, it is being spited into 2: masculine energy and feminine energy at their core essence. You understood it correctly that everything that exists in the duality consciousness, each person, man or woman, within them they are compounded from 2/3 masculine energy and 1/3 feminine energy and vice versa, while the energies always are searching and finding the balance as an external wholeness
Masculine energy is being characterized as aggression, decisive, initiative, fighting or everything that characterize the controller person (threatening and investigating). Feminine energy is characterized as being concerning, gentle, sensitivity, taking care or everything that characterized the person that is being controlled (miserable and withdrawn)
Each man and woman are coming according to an agreement that they have made, with a specific relation of masculine or feminine energies within themselves. It means, those men that looks very manly within them there are 2/3 masculine energy and 1/3 feminine energy. And of course, that there are women that are "manly" that within them there are 2/3 masculine energy and 1/3 feminine energy. And vice versa, there are men that within them there are 2/3 feminine energy and 1/3 masculine energy, and women that within them there are 2/3 feminine energy and 1/3 masculine energy
Those men that looks very manly they have a different relation andnot like yours. You came with a pre-agreement that you planed intentionally tohave this relation of 2/3 with you that is feminine energy and 1/3 masculineenergy. Therefore, you feel a certain jealousy to those men, because it ismissing and you don't have it within you. One of the things that you set foryourself is that you have to release the jealousy, anger, completion and thehate towards those men and develop the masculine energy within you and nothaving it through and external completion- somebodyelse
Question: There is a misunderstanding with the issue of the year 2012: from the literature, as I understand this, it's an end of a special energetic growth. It seems that the evolution here of Earth is changing. I would like to understand this
Answer: There are many people that are waiting and focusing at the known year of 2012, but at that year nothing unusual will happen because the things are already happening now
A "small" group of people that are developing their consciousness level is enough to change the humanity consciousness and that was the destination and purpose of the first 144,000 group of people since 1987. In spite of apparently nothing is happening or changing, at 18/09/07 the humanity's consciousness was enough higher to open officially the transition to the consciousness beyond duality- New Energy (consciousness level 5). There is a potential for each person that chooses to move from the old consciousness of duality to the consciousness beyond- the New Consciousness. There is the potential to every person that the transition from the different consciousness levels will be much more easier and quick, and of course, that depends on the choosing, the work within and the self evolution that the person is doing on himself
Already now the changes are occurring within you as an individual with in your own personal evolution and the internal work that you are doing on yourself, developing your own consciousness level and by that you are raising the frequency of the Earth's consciousness
Already now the humanity's consciousness is changing at the business and marketing, education, economy, technology, art, governments, connections between countries, history… but most of the people don't understand what is happening, because they are still living in the limited duality consciousness, understanding and creating the drama of the end of the world, Earth's distraction etc.- a fear frequency, misunderstanding and lack of knowledge
At theyear 2012 there will still be people that will live in the dualityconsciousness, having their experiences in the different consciousness levels, but who is moving to the consciousness beyond will experience the life verydifferent and not as the rest of humans that will be in the dualityconsciousness. Actually, there is no end to the energetic growth and a closureof a portal, but an evolution and expansion. The meaning for the completion andintegration is by creating the different experiences in the differentincarnations that were experienced again and again, creating karma and aspectsin the duality consciousness. It means, the integration and completion from the separated consciousness from the higher-self consciousness
Question: Recently, I've been in a workshop that taught me how to work with the pyramid. I'll be very grateful if you tell me which three words I have to put in the pyramid
Answer: At the duality energy- the pyramid, the Merkaba, gemstones, meditations, rules etc. are grate tools to receive energy of healing, balance, information guidance and the integration with the divine (the authentic-self, higher-self) that is within us. At the duality energy we aroused to receive all what we need as a complement, from external things The duality energy is the energy which we created on Earth so that we will experience different experiences and understand who we are during many lifetimes. At the time that we've gone through all what we needed to go through in order to know who we are, there is a completion within our internal-self, and then we're getting out of the energetic dimension of the duality. All what was applicable at the duality energy is not applicable at the New energy; therefore, we need to go through a process of releasing the grasp on things such as: believe systems, ways of thinking and habits which were applicable at the duality energy
At the consciousness beyond duality we are taking responsibility on our lives and what is happening to us, we are not controlling over someone else of others controlling us, we are released from the fear that there is not enough to survive, therefore we live in trust and co-operation with each other when we receive the whole energy from within us. At the New consciousness we know who we are, therefore we don't need any more to experience the different experiences that we has at the duality energy. At the duality we acted according the mind and the intellect and at the New energy we are acting according the feeling If you are still using those tools, they are still powerful at the duality energy, the most important thing is to be honest with yourself. The words being said are not so important, what is important is to give intent that comes within you. I give intent to release the anger that is inside me, I allow to each cell of my body to live and rebalance, I allow myself to receive everything that I need at the appropriate time, I allow myself to receive new understandings about the situation that I in, I'm aware that the power is within me and all the answers and the wisdom are in myself, therefore, I release the need to be depended on someone else or anything else that is external, I understand the fears that re within me and allow them to be released from within me, I release all the thoughts and memories that are implanted within me about the money and abundance, I love myself as I am now or every intent that comes within you The moment that you feel that certain thing finished its purpose, you have to be honest with yourself and release the grasp from it and released it. Doing so, you are moving to another frequency level, toothier understandings about yourself and your situation. Ask yourself: what is the pyramid (or anything else external) is doing to me, do I feel that it helps me, what do I want to receive from it, do I still need it for healing, information etc Am I ready to release from myself from the duality energy and move to the consciousness beyond. In order to go to the consciousness beyond duality, you don't need any more external things to receive answers, healing, information, guidance, balance etc. You are integrated with thehigher-self within you
Question: I know that I'm at the self development process and this is my destination, what is happening with me now at the hanging process, why the development process is taking so long and things are not manifested as I want
Answer:You are responsible for your live and behavior and to what is happening in your life. To be a "light carrier" on a higher level of consciousness it involves going through many changes and a personal internal work. This process is gradual and requires from you the diligence, patience and taking responsibility on your life without changing others and goes through at your own individual rhythm. The individual progress is by changing habits and dealing in the experiences in a practical way and not by reading, many studying, positive thinking, wearing white clothes all the time, doing meditations and going to India… When developing the personal consciousness and the "negative" situations are coming back, you begin to seed and understand the things from different points of view and acting on another attitude
The real progress and being a "light carrier" within the human body is by dealing and facing the fears, traumas and release them from within you… to have within each of your DNA cellular level the "love frequency"
You have to understand that most of the people stay in the old duality consciousness on Earth, therefore you can't find yourself there anymore. At this lifetime you go through a completion and integration process between your human-self and the higher-authentic-self. That's right, sometimes it’s despicable, frustrating and disappointing, but this is what is happening. Therefore, I'm here as a teacher and a facilitator with the process that is very complicated. I've gone through this process and I know and understand what you're going through. The pain, the fear to lose someone dear, the confusion and the emptiness, therefore what you feel is true and real, allow it to be and release every emotion and pain. Actually, what you're going though is the release of the old-self of yours that is going through changes, the old self that used to certain things is beginning to feel that is losing itself, therefore, it is hanging with all its power to keep the things as they were
In order to keep a Green Environment, please recycle: bottles, plastic bags- you may bring it directly to Safataianaya Solar, pre-agreement, thank you
All the information that is written on this web-site and all what youreceive during the consultation sessions, studying, seminars, answering to yourquestions are written and edited by Safataianaya Solar. They are protected bycopyright, therefore, you may not copy of publish them without her approval
Question: What is love
