 Article: What are you doing when
Written by Safataianaya Solar © All rightsreserved
What are you doing at your daily routine life when you aredealing with people and situations that make you be anger, irritated, stressed, frightened…There are four ways of dealing with them
1) Forgetting all what have been learning at the theoretical information, running away from the situation and not facing it
2) Being defending and bring back in aggressiveness, fighting, violence, anger, revenge, and show who is the strongest
3) Changing the others in a way to correct and improve the other''''s behavior, heal them from their traumas that they have gone through, help them to change
4) Starting to take responsibility on yourselves, being aware to what is happening and not operating anymore from the automat habits, you star to breath deep and aware breathings to integrate with your own Self-Partner, "to stop" for a few seconds and asking yourselves honestly: "what I feel inside me- which fear or emotion this situation or person raise up from inside me?" you are staying with the feeling inside you and give a true intend to release it gently from you
Of course, the recommended way in the consciousness development is the forth way, because the consciousness development is personal and is by taking responsibility on yourselves without running away, change others or correct them. The situations and people are there to bring you a "gift", because you are releasing from yourselves things that are no longer appropriate for your own personal consciousness. Of course, they don''''t need to know what you are doing, because the "work" that you are doing is internal and on a "quite" level and it''''s a about you not them.
You have to understand that each time that you have a situation, challenge or person in front of you, it only represents a fear or a certain emotion that raises upon the surface that you will acknowledge it an release it from within you
A fear to be alone, fear of drowning, fear of abandonment, fear of failure, fear of success, fear of being poor and lack, fear of integrating with your Self-Partner, fear of confrontation, fear of being a victim, fear being control over others, being controlled by others, fear expressing your own internal truth, fear of being the true authentic self, fear of change, fear of dark places, fear of being independence, fear of enlightenment, being anger, betrayal, hate, jealousy, seduction, uncertainty, doubts, dependence etc…
Thefears are in your ownaspects that arewithin you. They have gone through manydifferent experiencesalong manylifetimes therefore they remained at lowerconsciousness. The fearsareimprinted at the cellular memory of consciousness. So, the imprint isreleasedonly when you give a true intend and allow it to bereleased fromwithinyou
This process isgradual, thereforeitrequires from you to be patient with thechallenges that come to you at thedailylife
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