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I arranged here few answers to common questions from people and students about different issues
Because the information is new for you, you may notunderstand the answers,therefore I'll be wiliingly teaching and giving you more clarifications during the seminarsand consultation sessions I'm respecting the privacy of people, therefore, the names are notpublished
Question: Whatdo you mean to developthe self esteem
Answer:Self-loveand acceptance at higher levels of consciousness starts at theselfacknowledgment of who you are, accepting your naturallook and your body as itis, what are your low spots, thebalance of giving and receiving, doing thingsfromco-operation, mutual respect, trust, openness, patience and beingassertive, releasing energies that bond you to certain people- like: hate, blame, self-pity, jealousy, anger, tension, judgment, criticism etc
Theself-love and acceptance starts when you are really honest withyourselves anddon't deny to your natural look andappearance, how you feel, your own truth, you knowyour limits and not caring away with others, society, parents etc
You're developing a relationship with your dearest andbest friend thatis your authentic-higher-self
Fallingin love with someone elseis an illusion that goes away with the time- it onlygetsto the physical-external level and taking energy from others, also gettingan external support Stableand balanced relationship, is first withyourself
Question: How do I get a higher self esteem
Answer: The first step of self esteem is to aceept your natural look and appearance, and others without judgment and criticism
There are some main body figures, also for man and woman
Question: I'vesuffered mostof my adult life from depression. I've foundrelief by taking medications anddrugs
Answer: Mostly, you have usedthose medications and drugs as a protection not dealing with your problems, and the people who gave themto you said that whatwill assist you. As I said to you at the consultationsession, in order to go through the self development process andintegratecompletely with your authentic self you'll haveto release those medications anddrugs. They give you acertain protection and excuse. You'll have to releasethosethings and move on. They won't disappear immediately, there is a chemical accumulation in your body, andmore than that, it causes somehow for a longperiod of time as aprotection blanket, an emotionalblanket that will require a certain from yourpart torelease it. There is a level that will require more love and attention inorder to be released. I suggest you to understand that thosemedicationsor anti-depression drugs or other psychologicalmedications are blockingyour natural system of your body, and it causes an external dependency on them. Onyour self development those drugs and medications won't supply you whatyou've been needing and it's protection, because you aregoing through a process ofdevelopment whining yourself, you won't need toreceivethem from the drugs and medications
Question: What advice can you give us for those that their marriage are falling apart and getting a divorce
Answer: Very simple, allow them to be released because it's appropriate. Why are you holding on something n on someone that is no longer appropriate for you anymore? What law says that marriage have to be forever? Now you understand that you marriage are no longer appropriate, release it. Stop trying to make it more artificial, that it's not working. I know that at first it's very difficult to release something. Actually, you are releasing patterns of the past, patterns of the old energy. And I know that you love this person and very attached to him at the deepest levels, but the real, deep and honest love, just let it go. Release yourself and him as well. Connect with yourself and start to really love and appreciate yourself without being depended on someone else
Question:Whydo I have a child withautism or iscrippled
Answer:Duringthe consultationsessions that Igave, there were a few families that theirchildren were bornwith autism, crippled orwerewith health problems, and they didn'tunderstood whythishappened. Thosefamilies went to all sorts of peopleand specialiststhatwillhelp themand make some miracle that their child willbehealthy andnormal. Thosefamilies also came tome and I assisted them to understandwhy it reallyhappenedand how theyhave to deal with it. Whenthose families came to me Isawthere thehate, violence, neglecting, lack ofempathy, rejection, anger and a lot of expectationsfrom those children to benormal likethe others .Theloveand the acceptance is to receive allthe children atthe same level althoughtheir condition or their appearance. Theexpatiations that the parents have from their childrenthose are thethings thathave to bechanged. Father: I wanted a son thatI'll go with him toseefootball. Mother: I wanted adaughter that I can gowith her shopping and buyclotheslike, me so she will be like me. Each childisunique and therefore thelove is toaccept them as they are andnot as theparents want them to be
Thosechildren needmore to their parents, for their love, acceptanceandpersonal andfamily support. They need to understand that they are at a certain physicalcondition and that is the way they were born. It's very difficultforthosechildren, because they arenot understood. Therefore, the parents need toacceptas they are and give them allotof support, encouragement, understanding andpatience. Whatis happening that the parents feelveryfrustratedandpatience becausethe children don't speak of being co-operative, so thechildren are withdrawing within themselves and starting tobeangry and losecontrol? Thesolution isfrom the parents: to hug those more, and let themknowthat when they wantsomething youcan communicate with them and understand themat thelevelthey can
Theparents need first to take care forthemselves- it means, thatthey will becalm, relaxed and patient when they are withthechildren. Another importantpoint to mention- that those parents are toomuch busy withthe children- and therefore they don't spendthe time for themselvesandfeelneglected and frustrated. So, theparents need tospend the time for themselvesand go out, have fun, learnsomething, relax, rest and thenthey also bewith the children at a state of communication with theminstead ofanger, blame, frustrate andviolencebetweenthem
Afew samples to talk in a patient andsupportive waywith thechildren
Good, youcan, you have the ability totalk Yes, very good, you say this wordsyou should, let's sayitagain Weaccept you as you are, andstart to talk atyou own time, it's O.K., we understand that it' difficultforyou so weallow you tostart talking slowly how much you can Wewant you to walk, and you catwalk. Wearehere to help youpatiently We loveandaccept youeven when you can't walk Inorder that the children will co-operatethey need the love, acceptance, support andencouragement from theparents. Usuallythe parentforce themto talk, in control: For manyyears we aretrying andnothing happened- at this situationthe children are withdrawing withinthemselves, in angerandfrustration Thosechildren will start to talk and beco-operative gradually at theirtime when theyreceive allthe support from their parents. Forexample: before going to sleep topet them, hugthem and say to themgently encouraging andlovingwords
I call those childrenspecial-childrenbecause they came herewithuniqueattribution, they were born at this conditionfrom acontractorpre-agreement: dothe parents reject and denythem or do they acceptthemwithloveasthey are
Question: What is personal evolution
Answer: Because over the years there were manymisunderstanding about the personalconsciousness evolution and the metaphysics I'll explain it briefly
Actually, the essence of existence for every person is to experience different experiences at the duality consciousness and going through the practical personal consciousness evolution in order to move to higher levels of consciousness. At this process there is the tendancy being in an organization or religion, being Shanti, wearing all the time white clothes and hugging, doing an hour of meditation/yoga or living/being in India/East etc... but it's only a small part of the consciousness personal evolution process and it's not ending by that Most people don't understand what personal evolution means. A few just want to experience it and after a while they forget about it, there are some that are looking for a brief relief. But the personal evolution is a continuing process which requires the courage, patience, diligence, daily self discipline, and of course, the internal true and honest intention for change and development. The personal evolution process is by taking responsibility for yourselves when you are going through the changes of releasing ways of thinking; believe systems and behaviors that are no longer appropriate for you. The self development process is sometimes difficult and frustrating and you may not feel it, but after a while the results are accomplished at your reality
The personal evolution starts with the basic things of the daily life: first you learn what are doing in with your time, going over a low self esteem and low-spots, when are you acting as a controller or being controlled at the different situation and being depended, what are your body language and the way of speaking, what are your ways of thinking and believe systems, what is your truth etc... when you are moving to higher consciousness levels you are beginning, step by step, to see more clearly your lives and your reality that you are creating for yourselves and to understand, not through the mind, your essence of existance and the metaphysics
Question: What is the difference between sharing andtaking energy
Answer: The differencebetween sharing and taking energy from others: the sharing is by giving aconscious information of an experience, taking energy from others- isunconscious and based on creating dramas and repeating problems to get attentionfrom someone else or because it's boring and there is nothing else what todo
Question: What are the causes for diseases Answer: Because this issue is very complicated, I'll explain it briefly Nowadays the society is based on that if you don't feel well. So it's awful and you need to go to the doctor to give you pills or get an operation and with that the thing is over
I respect the modern technology that was developed recently, but it is just based on researches, figure data, statistics and only looking on the physical body which is parted into parts: heart and lungs, nose-ear-throat, human skeleton etc. and giving a lot of complicated names to different diseases that I won't detail them here
Actually, the body is consist and surrounded by more bodies that are more refined and have influenced on the visible, touchable and physical body.
On the human body there are seven energy centers. The function of the energy centers is to get in and get out the life-force. All the energy centers are at the emotional, mental and the other energetic bodies that are around the physical body. Those energy centers are parallel to the spinal column and connected to it, their function is to control the action of the organs and glands. Each energy center is related to a specific function, color and sound that vibrate at the same energy frequency. The life force is an invisible to the physical eye and a refined energy and that's why we can't see it or measure the flow of energy. But, we are sure that is existent, while the physical body is representing the very dense anatomy and the energy centers are representing the less dense anatomy. That's why both are connected to each other and there is a co-operation between them. It means, the physical body is a reflection of all the other energetic centers. Each time that one of the center is not functional properly is will be reflected on the other energy bodies including the physical body
Everything on Earth, at the universe is a consciousness. The difference is the energetic density of the consciousness is that around everything. The human body also is created from those levels, while the physical body is the very dense from all. Around it there are less dense bodies like the emotional level, the mental level and the spiritual level etc. Actually, each level is affected from another. For example, if you have a headache, most people are taking a pill to relief the pain and with that they get over it. But, the real cause can come from over thinking that is from the mental level. Therefore, we must understand that one thing drags another thing, and we are going directly to the root-problem and not only looking at the surface level of the physical body. Also, many blockages come from other lifetimes that your different aspects were experienced and it is stored at the DNA cellular memory level as an imprint
There are emotions that are at the emotional level and very dense like: anger, hate, revenge, disappointment, guilt, mistrust, different fears, tensions, worries etc. up to emotions that are energetic less dense such as: joy, lightness, compassion, forgiveness, clarity, peacefulness, happiness etc. According to get to the refined levels you have to release and transmute the dense emotions to a higher level. This process is gradual, therefore, it's taking a long time. I'm calling thing this process "washing machine affect". Again and again, releasing and to press it out until the last drop all the pains, emotions, anger etc.
There are many factors that can cause a disharmony in the physical body: your or others emotional and mental problems, lack of energy that was taken from you, imprints that are at the DNA cellular memory at each cell that are from the different experiences that were at other lifetimes etc.
The body knows how to speak and communicate and of course not on the verbal level, but it shows this through an imbalance that is created such as: diabetes, different addictions, cancer, heart diseases, anemia, stemmer, hearing and seeing problems, back issues, rheumatism etc.
Another example that it's not understood for many is the flu or cold. You were taught that getting a flu or cold is because many different things such as: "you didn't sleep with socks on", "you don't have enough vitamin C", "you have shampoo your hair and got out with a wet hair", "you got it from someone at work"…
Actually, the flu or cold are a natural way of your body to clean and purify itself from each cell, what you've taken from others and from you during the time: emotions of stress, anger, guilt, depression… worries and bothering thoughts… or maybe others were taking your energy and you don't have it… although the cold of flu is not so comfortable: there are headaches, watery eyes, coughs, but you have to be with it, to allow the body to clean itself from what is not appropriate anymore gently… don't worry it will go after three days
You have to take responsibility on your lives and start to process those emotions, to stat resolving the problems within in practical way and not only by reading it or theoretical understanding. You have to know that no one will do the work for you, it has to come from your own internal intent that now you are ready to release the anger, distress, mistrust and all the wounds that are from this lifetime and others and are at the deepest level. This process requires from you to be patient, because it's not over on one day
During the time- at your personal self-development you'll understand that you are responsible for your body and nobody else. You'll start to be your own "doctor" and will not be depended on someone else, because you'll know how to communicate with your body and understand what is going on at your deepest levels within
Question: Where is my mate and why I'm not inarelationship
Answer: Your repeating question about beingwith a relationship with a woman islegitimate, but you have to know that nowomen willbring you what you have already within yourself, the realpeacefulness, theintegration to yourauthentic-higher-self. Stop seeing everywoman and ask: isthat the women for me or not, that's the way you are losing the beautyand thecharm of life. Yourmind-intellect is taking the commandand stats to analyzeeverything. The mind-intellect sees everything from a narrowperspective and starts to be in fears and doubts. You already know thatwhen youpush on something, think about it and worry, itjust get away from you- it's auniversal cosmic law. Stop this behavior pattern of being a victim and go toeverybodyand tell about your problems, most people having their problemsand they can't give you the answers that you're looking for, they are confusingyou more. Therefore, release thetension, worries, pressure, and anger and allowthe flownaturally. Start taking the life more easily. Start to enjoy from eachmoment, don't do the life a project. Enjoy from every situation, give thanks tothe past and release it, release the feelings of guilt, disappointments and things that are no longer appropriate anymore and move on
As I mentioned, the missions ofthe seminar "Personal Consciousness Evolution" are to assist you with the process. Therefore, It's not enough to read them but also to apply them. In fact, there is an aspectof yours that is rejecting the changeand wants to hang on the "old-self". Therefore, itis showing up all the time. This aspect ismoving you away from the progress, to find your higher-self, andfinds to itself "excuses" not to change, it all thetime is coming to the same point of the pastand hanging onthe familiar
Behaviorpattern that youmust release from your self is the desireto change others, to take care of themor finding what theyare doing wrong and being their "savior". How you change abehavior pattern? It's just being aware to it and stops behaving in practicalway. Love and self-acceptance is really to behonest with yourself and apply the information on you andchange habits, ways of thinking and believe systems… To bea "light carrier" is not by sitting at home all the time reading, but to be a part of life, therefore, stop thinking, have interest in your life, learn something and allow the things to come naturally
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